A lady in her late 50s was suffering with stress and the
pressures of work that turned out to be largely self-imposed. She works in the child care industry and was
responsible for managing just under 30 child care workers and other centres and
their managers as well.
Her focus was to be on her stress, but during the treatment
where sometimes as the Neuro-Trainer I need to find a particular emotion that
is the CAUSE of the stress, I was surprised to discover that the emotion was ‘enthusiasm’. I would have thought that this particular
emotion was a positive emotion, not negative or stressful at all. But as with all Neuro-Training sessions, it
is not up to the facilitator to make judgement on what they believe is the issue;
the client ALWAYS determines it themselves.
That is how the kinesiology side works so well as a tool to discover the
body’s response to stress and what is really driving the issue.
When queried about the emotion ‘enthusiasm’ she was clear
that she fully understood why this would have shown as a stress for her. Each morning on walking in the door, she believed
she had to show enthusiasm in order to motivate all her staff towards a good
days work with the children. This had
become such a chore for her that it was causing her stress, but she could see
no way out of this behaviour. She was
stuck.
Following a balance (with this as the focus), she reported
back to me a few weeks later how free she felt as she no longer felt it
necessary to put on the forced enthusiasm.
She also noted how very calm she felt, how she now ALSO didn’t feel a
need to check on her staff all the time and could work
out her priorities for her work so much better. She mentioned several times, just how calm
she now felt throughout the day and how much smoother
things seemed to be working. This
demonstrates how sometimes we have done something that may have been a helpful
thing in the beginning, and as a consequence developed into a habit that is now
causing you stress and may not even be necessary at all anymore.
If you believe you are no longer dealing
well with the demands placed on you contact us at Brilliant Living Solutions and resolve this quickly and easily
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